Been in a relationship for over 10 year would like to meet someone near my age who would just like to lay back and be submissive from time to time. Do you know what you want in the bedroom and aren't afraid to say so? You don't have to be Mr Muscle, but if you haven't seen your penis except that in a mirror, you have very little chance. We are both 45, down to earth, easy to talk to and have some fun while single.